You really can't say things that upset someone in print and expect them to be nice and leave you their money. That's just not reasonable.
Anne RoipheMany writers do write about their families and their immediate loved ones and love experiences, either as children or as adults. And very often people get offended by it.
Anne RoipheI've told the same story twelve different ways, but I think that's just part of what writers do. Once may not be enough.
Anne RoipheThere is cruelty in divorce. There is cruelty in forced or unfortunate marriage. We will continue to cry at weddings because we know how bittersweet, how fragile is the truth. We will always need legal divorce just as an emergency escape hatch is crucial in every submarine. No sense, however, in denying that after every divorce someone will be running like a cat, tin cans tied to its tail: spooked and slowed down.
Anne Roiphe