I had many clients who didn't respect me, probably because of how they were raised. We're all the walking wounded.

I'd like to see feminism really be more loving. Feminists have a lot of righteous anger, and have done a lot to fight for rights. But we need a lot of love and compassion - to embrace people, to educate people. I wasn't a feminist until l I was educated about what it was. I would love to see men attend, and transgender people. Everyone is welcome.

Feel free to cover your eyes at anything that might upset you

I had orgasms with clients, even though it was kind of a taboo at that time to admit it. Women weren't supposed to enjoy sex that much!

My whole purpose is to bring what's hidden out in the open so people can look at it and discuss it. And sexually oriented material is very important to study in an academic setting. Controversy is part of the fun.

I don't think being obsessed with sex is any stranger than being obsessed with stamp collecting.

A lot of women I worked with didn't respect their clients. I had some clients who didn't respect me, but still you somehow made it work.