What you are aware of you are in control of; what you are not aware of is in control of you.
Anthony de MelloThere comes a point in your life when you become stark raving insane, commit suicide or become a mystic.
Anthony de MelloThe only way someone can be of help to you is in challenging your ideas. If you're ready to listen and if you're ready to be challenged, there's one thing that you can do, but no one can help you. What is this most important thing of all? It's called self-observation.
Anthony de Mello