If you never condemned you would never need to forgive.

Concepts are always frozen. Reality flows.

You keep insisting, I feel good because the world is right! Wrong! The world is right because I feel good. That's what all the mystics are saying.

God in heaven holds each person by a string. When you sin, you cut the string. Then God ties it up again. Making a knot, bringing you a little closer to Him. Again and again your sins cut the string and with each knot God keeps drawing you closer and closer.

You do not have to change for God to love you.

Are you your clothes? Are you your name? Are you your profession? Stop identifying with them. They come and go

No. An unremitting readiness to admit you may be wrong.