"What is the secret of your serenity?" Said the master: "Wholehearted cooperation with the inevitable."
Anthony de MelloTo a woman who complained about her destiny the Master said, "It is you who make your destiny." "But surely I am not responsible for being born a woman?" "Being born a woman isn't destiny. That is fate. Destiny is how you accept your womanhood and what you make of it."
Anthony de Mello