Selfishness is the biggest form of helplessness as it makes the person blind so much that he fails to search his true self for being always in the lurch.
AnujItโs always going to be easy to live like others or otherโs life, because creating or innovating something of own is always difficult in comparison to buying or borrowing anything from others.
AnujThere's always SOMEONE in support as long as he can be assured or he himself feels confident of getting, in return, SOMETHING beneficial of any sort.
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