Some people advise you what to do and some people forbid what not to do, but the genuine people just ask you if they can do anything for you.
AnujFORGIVING is FOR GIVING to others and if it is meant FOR GETTING to ourselves then should it not be termed as FORGETTING ourselves.
AnujSelfishness is the biggest form of helplessness as it makes the person blind so much that he fails to search his true self for being always in the lurch.
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