Just like you, your partner wants to be loved for who they are, in spite of their shortcomings. Make an effort to let them know they are loved, even if some of their behavior is not. Work towards co-creative solutions.

Meeting your soulmate has a certain amount of meant-to-be-ness to it, AND it requires a big dose of make-it-happen-ness.

I was a first time bride at 44. I had never even lived with anybody. And after running my own business for many years, I knew how to be the boss - but I had no idea how to be a good partner.

Seeking perfection just ends up creating ridiculous amounts of stress and disappointment.

Just as a seed grows with the warmth of the sun, so our positive qualities grow when we put our attention on them.

Imagine how great you will feel when you know your partner loves all of you, all the time. The good, the bad, and everything in between!

If you had a large vase with a big crack down the middle of it, a Japanese art museum would put the vase on a pedestal and shine a spotlight on the crack!