Things always happen in series.
Passive pleasure is no pleasure at all.
Misery's fine - as long as you know you can get out of it when you want to.
I know I earn less at my primary school than you do, but I don't have to work as hard at my primary school.
The only thing to know is how to use your neurosis.
It is nasty when you're playing in someone else's house to point out that they don't have enough balls.