Sometimes, a defeat can be more beautiful and satisfying than certain victories. The English have a point in insisting that it matters not who won or lost, but how you played the game.
Arthur AsheSome folks call tennis a rich people's sport or a white person's game. I guess I started too early because I just thought it was something fun to do. Later, I discovered there was a lot of work to being good in tennis. You've got to make a lot of sacrifices and spend a lot of time if you really want to achieve with this sport, or in any sport, or in anything truly worthwhile.
Arthur AsheI have always tried to be true to myself, to pick those battles I felt were important. My ultimate responsibility is to myself. I could never be anything else.
Arthur AsheHaving grown up in a segregated environment in the south I know what it's like to be stepped on, I know what it's like also to see some black hero do well in the face of adversity.
Arthur AsheLet me put it this way: I think Republicans tend to keep the ball in play, Democrats go for broke.
Arthur AsheI strongly believe the black culture spends too much time, energy and effort raising, praising, and teasing our black children about the dubious glories of professional sports.
Arthur AsheWe blacks look for leadership in men and women of such youth and inexperience, as well as poverty of education and character, that it is no wonder that we sometimes seem rudderless.... We see basketball players and pop singers as possible role models, when nothing could be further, in most cases, from their capacities.
Arthur AsheI take the good with the bad, and I try to face them both with as much calm and dignity as I can muster.
Arthur AsheWherever I am when you feel sick at heart and weary of life, or when you stumble and fall and donโt know if you can get up again, think of me. I will be watching and smiling and cheering you on.
Arthur AsheI keep sailing on in this middle passage. I am sailing into the wind and the dark. But I am doing my best to keep my boat steady and my sails full.
Arthur AsheYou've got to get to the stage in life where going for it is more important than winning or losing.
Arthur AsheMy potential is more than can be expressed within the bounds of my race or ethnic identity.
Arthur AsheYou learn about equality in history and civics, but you find out life is not really like that.
Arthur AsheAlways have the situation under control, even if losing. Never betray an inward sense of defeat.
Arthur AsheIf I were to say, 'God, why me?' about the bad things, then I should have said, 'God, why me?' about the good things that happened in my life.
Arthur AsheEvery time you win, it diminishes the fear a little bit. You never really cancel the fear of losing; you keep challenging it.
Arthur AsheIf you're paid before you walk on the court, what's the point in playing as if your life depended on it?
Arthur AsheYou've got to make a lot of sacrifices and spend a lot of time if you really want to achieve with this sport, or in any sport, or in anything truly worthwhile.
Arthur AsheThere is a terrific apprehension among some people that blacks will take over the sport... It will create problems because their behavior, speech and dress is just a completely different culture.
Arthur AsheYou come to realize that life is short, and you have to step up. Don't feel sorry for me. Much is expected of those who are strong.
Arthur AsheI don't care who you are, you're going to choke in certain matches. You get to a point where your legs don't move and you can't take a deep breath. You start to hit the ball about a yard wide, instead of inches.
Arthur AsheThe world over - 50 million children start playing tennis, 5 million learn to play tennis, 500,000 learn professional tennis, 50,000 come to the circuit, 5000 reach the grand slam, 50 reach Wimbledon, 4 to semi final, 2 to the finals, when I was holding a cup I never asked GOD 'Why me?'. And today in pain I should not be asking GOD 'Why me?'
Arthur AsheIf one's reputation is a possession, then of all my possessions, my reputation means most to me.
Arthur AsheThis is my career highlight. Getting to the fourth round in the U.S. Open in my first year in the U.S. Open and first year on the tour.
Arthur AsheThroughout my formal education I spent many, many hours in public and school libraries. Libraries became courts of last resort, as it were. The current definitive answer to almost any question can be found within the four walls of most libraries.
Arthur AsheSeven out of 10 black faces you see on television are athletes. The black athlete carries the image of the black community. He carries the cross, in a way, until blacks make inroads in other dimensions.
Arthur AsheI have become convinced that we blacks spend too much time on the playing field and too little time in libraries.
Arthur AsheMy humanity, in common with all of God's children, gives the greatest flight to my full range of my possibilities.
Arthur AsheOne important key to success is self-confidence. An important key to self-confidence is preparation.
Arthur AsheI'm learning to use others' weaknesses. I don't hammer a man's soft spot constantly, because he may strengthen it. I just save it as a trump up my sleeve for moments when I really need a point.
Arthur Ashe