Remember that in giving any reason at all for refusing, you lay some foundation for a future request.
Arthur HelpsIt is a weak thing to tell half your story, and then ask your friend's advice-a still weaker thing to take it.
Arthur HelpsBe cheerful [and grateful for the good that you have]: do not brood over fond hopes unrealized until a chain is fastened on each thought and wound around the heart. Nature intended you to be the fountain-spring of cheerfulness and social life, and not the mountain of despair and melancholy.
Arthur HelpsThe man of the house can destroy the pleasure of the household, but he cannot make it. That rests with the woman, and it is her greatest privilege.
Arthur Helps