I observed once to Goethe that when a friend is with us we do not think the same of him as when he is away. He replied, "Yes! because the absent friend is yourself, and he exists only in your head; whereas the friend who is present has an individuality of his own, and moves according to laws of his own, which cannot always be in accordance with those which you form for yourself.
Arthur SchopenhauerThe less one, as a result of objective or subjective conditions, has to come into contact with people, the better off one is for it.
Arthur SchopenhauerThe wise have always said the same things, and fools, who are the majority have always done just the opposite.
Arthur Schopenhauer