A failure often does not have to be a failure at all. However, you have to be ready for it-will you admit when things go wrong? Will you take steps to set them right?-because the difference between triumph and defeat, you'll find, isn't about willingness to take risks. It's about mastery of rescue.
Atul GawandeCourage is strength in the face of knowledge of what is to be feared or hoped. Wisdom is prudent strength.
Atul GawandeOur ideas of what our priorities are shift as we come face-to-face with some of the struggles.
Atul GawandeDeveloping a skill is painful, though. It is difficult. And that's part of the satisfaction. You will only find meaning in what you struggle with. What you struggle to get good at next may not seem the exact right thing for you at first. With time and effort, however, you will discover new possibilities in yourself-an ability to solve problems, for instance, or to communicate, or to create beauty.
Atul Gawande