I cannot shut you out the way I shut the others out, so maybe I can destroy you. Must destroy you?
Audre LordeSome problems we share as women, some we do not. You [white women] fear your children will grow up to join the patriarchy and testify against you; we fear our children will be dragged from a car and shot down in the street, and you will turn your backs on the reasons they are dying.
Audre LordeYou cannot use someone else's fire. You can only use your own. And in order to do that, you must first be willing to believe that you have it.
Audre LordeThe erotic has often been misnamed by men and used against women. It has been made into the confused, the trivial, the psychotic, the plasticized sensation.
Audre LordeDifference is that raw and powerful connection from which our personal power is forged... We have been taught to either ignore our differences or to view them as causes for separation and suspicion rather than as forces for change. Without community, there is no liberation, only the most vulnerable and temporary armistice between an individual and her oppression... Survival is learning to take our difference and make them strengths.
Audre Lorde