In other words, I would be giving in to a myth of sameness which I think can destroy us.
Audre LordeInstitutionalized rejection of differences is an absolute necessity in a profit economy which needs outsiders as surplus people. As members of such an economy, we have all been programmed to respond to the human differences between us with fear and loathing and to handle that difference in one of three ways: ignore it, and if that is not possible, copy it if we think it is dominant, or destroy it if we think it is subordinate.
Audre LordeI realize that if I wait until I am no longer afraid to act, write, speak, be, I'll be sending messages on a Ouija board, cryptic complaints from the other side
Audre LordeOnly by learning to live in harmony with your contradictions can you keep it all afloat.
Audre Lorde