Caring for myself is not self-indulgence, it is self-preservation, and that is an act of political warfare.
Audre LordeIt is axiomatic that if we do not define ourselves for ourselves, we will be defined by others-for their use and to our detriment.
Audre LordeI have suckled the wolf's lip of anger and I have used it for illumination, laughter, protection, fire in places where there was no light, no food, no sisters, no quarter.
Audre Lorde