There is a timbre of voice that comes from not being heard and knowing / you are not being heard / noticed only by others / not heard for the same reason.
Audre LordeAnd this is a grave responsibility, projected from within each of us, not to settle for the convenient, the shoddy, the conventionally expected, nor the merely safe.
Audre LordeIf I didn't define myself for myself, I would be crunched into other people's fantasies for me and eaten alive.
Audre LordeThose of us forged in the crucibles of difference know that survival is not an academic skill.
Audre Lorde