Pain is important: how we evade it, how we succumb to it, how we deal with it, how we transcend it. ... pain will always either change or stop. Always. ... The confidence that it will change is what makes bearing it possible. So pain is fluid. It is only when you conceive of it as something static that it is unbearable.
Audre LordeBut the true feminist deals out of a lesbian consciousness whether or not she ever sleeps with women.
Audre LordeWe recognize that all knowledge is mediated through the body and that feeling is a profound source of information about our lives
Audre Lorde