I became more courageous by doing the very things I needed to be courageous for-first, a little, and badly. Then, bit by bit, more and better. Being avidly-sometimes annoy-ingly-curious and persistent about discovering how others were doing what I wanted to do.
Audre LordePerhaps...I am the face of one of your fears. Because I am a woman, because I am Black, because I am a lesbian, because I am myself--a Black woman warrior poet doing my work--come to ask you, are you doing yours?
Audre LordeHow much of this truth can I bear to see and still live unblinded? How much of this pain can I use?
Audre LordeGuilt and defensiveness are bricks in a wall against which we all flounder; they serve none of our futures.
Audre Lorde