...my experience with people who tried to label me was that they usually did it to either dismiss me or use me.
Audre LordeThose of us who stand outside the circle of this society's definition of acceptable women; those of us who have been forged in the crucibles of difference - those of us who are poor, who are lesbians, who are black, who are older - know that survival is not an academic skill...For the master's tools will not dismantle the master's house. They will never allow us to bring about genuine change.
Audre LordeThe erotic is a measure between the beginnings of our sense of self and the chaos of our strongest feelings.
Audre Lorde