If we could survive without a wife, citizens of Rome, all of us would do without that nuisance; but since nature has so decreed that we cannot manage comfortably with them, nor live in any way without them, we must plan for our lasting preservation rather than for our temporary pleasure.
We write our names in the sand: and then the waves roll in and wash them away.
Have I played the part well? Then applaud as I exit.
The tales of our exploits will survive as long as the human voice itself.
Better a cautious commander, and not a rash one.
Just as men must give up economic control when their wives share the responsibility for the family's financial well-being, women must give up exclusive parental control when their husbands assume more responsibility for child care.