By marrying to soon, many individuals sacrifice their chance to struggle through this purgatory of solitude and search toward a greater sense of self-confidence. They glance at the world outside the family and with hardly a second thought grasp anxiously for a partner. In marriage they seek a substitute for the security of the family of origin and an escape from aloneness. What they do not realize is that moving so quickly from one family to another, they make it easy to transfer to the new marriage all their difficult experiences in the family of origin.

Just as men must give up economic control when their wives share the responsibility for the family's financial well-being, women must give up exclusive parental control when their husbands assume more responsibility for child care.

If you want rainbow, you have to deal with the rain.

I am a man of my word.

Better a cautious commander, and not a rash one.

Young men, listen to an old man to whom old men listened when he was young.

After this time I surpassed all others in authority, but I had no more power than the others who were also my colleagues in office.