You can't find your voice if you don't use it.
Marriage is two people in love standing in the same bathroom
Show your work, and when the right people show up, pay close attention to them, because they'll have a lot to show you.
Become a documentarian of what you do.
You'll either find the answer or you'll come up with a better question.
The thing is: It takes a lot of energy to be creative. You don't have that energy if you waste it on other stuff.