Marriage is two people in love standing in the same bathroom
The only way to find your voice is to use it
Do good work and share it with people.
You are, in fact, a mashup of what you choose to let into your life.
Not everybody will get it. People will misinterpret you and what you do. They might even call you names. So get comfortable with being misunderstood, disparaged, or ignored -- the trick is to be too busy doing your work to care.
The thing is: It takes a lot of energy to be creative. You don't have that energy if you waste it on other stuff.