There can be no compromise on moral principles.
You love people, not for what you do for them or what they do for you. You love them for their values; their virtues.
You love only those who deserve it.
Happiness is that state of consciousness which proceeds from the achievement of one's values.
The conservatives want to rule man's consciousness; the liberals, his body.
Any alleged 'right' of one man, which necessitates the violation of the rights of another, is not and cannot be a right.