Things do not pass for what they are, but for what they seem. Most things are judged by their jackets.
Baltasar GracianBe known for pleasing others, especially if you govern them. Ruling other has one advantage: you can do more good than anyone else.
Baltasar GracianMany of the things that bring delight should not be owned. They are more enjoyed if another's, than if yours; the first day they give pleasure to the owner, but in all the rest to the others: what belongs to another rejoices doubly, because it is without the risk of going stale and with the satisfaction of freshness. . . the possession of things not only diminishes their enjoyment, but augments their annoyance, whether shared or not shared.
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