It takes a lot of courage to be the same person on the outside that you are on the inside.

when your field is architecture, you go visit the great cathedrals of the world. My field was relationships. I got married many times. I was practicing. I didn't date much; I just would get married. I thought, why waste time?

To succeed, you have to do something and be very bad at it for a while. You have to look bad before you can look really good.

The obstacles in our path are not blocking us-they are redirecting us. Their purpose is not to interfere with our happiness; it is to point us toward new routes to our happiness, new possibilities, new doorways.

I just want to get a Ph.D. in love.

When will you know you have enough, and what will you do then?

If you don't develop your skill at enjoying what you have, you won't be any happier when you get more.