I think the only choice that will enable us to hold to our vision. . . is one that abandons the concept of naming enemies and adopts a concept familiar to the nonviolent tradition: naming behavior that is oppressive.
Barbara DemingThis is the heart of my argument: We can put more pressure on the antagonist for whom we show human concern.
Barbara DemingIt is one thing to be able to state the price the antagonist paid, another to be able to count you own real gains.
Barbara Deming