Whether we're talking about race or gender or class, popular culture is where the pedagogy is, it's where the learning is.
Bell HooksAbuse and neglect negate love. Care and affirmation, the opposite of abuse and humiliation, are the foundation of love. No one can rightfully claim to be loving when behaving abusively.
Bell HooksIt is a distortion of the notion of romantic love to want to see obedience as the quintessential expression of respect.
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