I believe that it is impossible for two individuals not committed to their own and each other’s well being to sustain a healthy and enduring relationship.

To love well is the task in all meaningful relationships, not just romantic bonds.

Few people who are hit once by someone they love respond in the way they might to a singular physical assault by a stranger.

Popular escapist fiction enchants adult readers without challenging them to be educated for critical consciousness.

In patriarchal culture men are especially inclined to see love as something they should receive without expending effort. More often than not they do not want to do the work that love demands. When the practice of love invites us to enter a place of potential bliss that is at the same time a place of critical awakening and pain, many of us turn our backs on love.

A good teacher is someone who can help you to get back to a teacher within.

What we do is more important than what we say or what we say we believe.