The transformative power of love is not fully embraced in our society because we often wrongly believe that torment and anguish are our โnaturalโ condition.
Bell HooksA central tenet of modern feminist thought has been the assertion that "all women are oppressed." This assertion implies that women share a common lot, that factors like class, race, religion, sexual preference, etc. do not create a diversity of experience that determines the extent to which sexism will be an oppressive force in the lives of individual women.
Bell HooksI will not have my life narrowed down. I will not bow down to somebody else's whim or to someone else's ignorance.
Bell HooksYoung people are cynical about love. Ultimately, cynicism is the great mask of the disappointed and betrayed heart.
Bell HooksGenuine love is rarely an emotional space where needs are instantly gratified. To know love we have to invest time and commitment...'dreaming that love will save us, solve all our problems or provide a steady state of bliss or security only keeps us stuck in wishful fantasy, undermining the real power of the love -- which is to transform us.' Many people want love to function like a drug, giving them an immediate and sustained high. They want to do nothing, just passively receive the good feeling.
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