There will be no mass-based feminist movement as long as feminist ideas are understood only by a well-educated few.

I often find it easier to be teaching or giving to others, and often struggle with the place of my own pleasure and joy.

When I began to think deeply about the metaphysics of love I talked with everyone around me about it. I talked to large audiences and even had wee one-on-one conversations with children about the way they think about love. I talked about love in every state, everywhere I traveled.

I think this is often misunderstood in the West, where people feel that there can be no justice unless everything is the same. This is part of why I feel we have to relearn how we think about love, because we think about love so much in terms of the self.

Most of us find it difficult to accept a definition of love that says we are never loved in a context where there is abuse.

Being oppressed means the absence of choices

...move from emphasis on personal lifestyle issues toward creating political paradigms and radical models of social change that emphasize collective as well as individual change.