A man is an island in the only sense that matters, not an easy way to be. We live in mystery, a cosmos of separate lonely bodies, men, insects, stars. It is all loneliness and men know it best.
Bernard MalamudThere comes a time in a man's life when to get where he has to go - if there are no doors or windows he walks through a wall.
Bernard MalamudChildren were strangers you loved because you could love. If they gave back love when they were grown you were ahead of the game.
Bernard MalamudSpace plus whatever you feel equals more whatever you feel, marvelous for happiness, God save you otherwise.
Bernard MalamudSome men are by nature explorers; my nature is to stay under the same moon and stars, and if the weather is wet, under the same roof. It's a strange world, why make it stranger?
Bernard MalamudTo any writer: Teach yourself to work in uncertainty. Many writers are anxious when they begin, or try something new. Even Matisse painted some of his Fauvist pictures in anxiety. Maybe that helped him to simplify. Character, discipline, negative capability count. Write, complete, revise. If it doesn't work, begin something else.
Bernard Malamud