There are some who wish to learn for no other reason than that they may be looked upon as learned, which is ridiculous vanity ... Others desire to learn that they may morally instruct others, that is love. And, lastly, there are some who wish to learn that they may be themselves edified; and that is prudence.
Bernard of ClairvauxWe find rest in those we love, and we provide a resting place in ourselves for those who love us.
Bernard of Clairvaux