Games are like Rorschachs made of human relationships.
The purpose of fun is to live it.
For every Way there's a way of following that Way that's fun
You can only have fun helping other people have fun if you're having fun doing it.
In a Game Community, the rules and officials decide if the players are good enough to play. If not, they change players. In a Play Community, the players decide if the game is fun enough to play. If not, they change rules.
Fun is where it's at. That's why you have to be there.