Games are like Rorschachs made of human relationships.
Joy is overwhelming fun - fun so big that it overflows your mind, heart, body - as if all of life and love were spilling into you and you were spilling out.
The purpose of fun is to live it.
The path that is best for you is the path that keeps the best of you in play.
You can only have fun helping other people have fun if you're having fun doing it.
In a Game Community, the rules and officials decide if the players are good enough to play. If not, they change players. In a Play Community, the players decide if the game is fun enough to play. If not, they change rules.