If you are still alive, then God is NOT finished with you!
If a person fears God, she has no reason to fear anything else.
For by your words you will be acquitted, and by your words you will be condemned. Matthew 12:37
Better to admit where you're not and ask God's help to get you where you need to be.
A pair of hands clasped in earnest prayer is the best means we have this side of heaven to hang onto Jesus for dear life.
As God took me through the journey that became the Bible study Breaking Free, He taught me to look for a common denominator among the things that triggered my destructive habits.