I am a woman and when I think, I must speak.

To me it's sexier when it doesn't look like you go to the gym. I feel best when I'm not really thin and not really heavy - when I'm still curvy.

I always try to be myself. Ever since I was an introverted kid, I'd get on stage and be able to break out of my shell.

Happiness comes from you. No one else can make you happy. You make you happy.

You can't put your finger on who I am. I can't put my finger on who I am.

My mother taught me the principles of hard work, setting my own goals and visualizing my future. From my early days with Destiny's Child, I understood I had to be focused and dedicated if I wanted true success. We were taught we needed a plan and the discipline to execute that plan to the fullest. I strongly believe if you work hard, whatever you want, it will come to you. I know that's easier said than done but keep trying.

My biggest thing is to teach not to focus on the aesthetic. It's really about who you are, and the human being, that makes you beautiful.