You can't think and act like a victim and expect victory.
All the successful people I knew in life had high self-esteem and all the losers had low self-esteem.
Don't forgive your enemies for their sake - do it for your sake.
If you chance your focus - you will change your life.
Get it right in your head - and you'll get it right in your life.
In life, you don't get what you deserve; you get what you believe, plan, and expect.