Hangout with people who respect you. And people who inspire you.
All of us prepare our own lunch. If we don't like our jobs, if we don't like the state of our relationships, if we don't like what's happening to our spiritual lives - we have no one to blame but ourselves. Because God has given us free will.
Your past may not be perfect, but it was perfect for your purpose.
Your deepest pain will be your most Glorious Blessing.
Earn more to grow more, and grow more to give more.
Don't try to get all your rewards on earth. There are more rewards in Heaven.