Most people need love and acceptance a lot more than they need advice.
I'm all for getting together with men and women in small groups around Scripture and letting it just wash over us, but for me, I've been meeting with the same ten guys for like 15 years now, but we don't have a Bible study every Friday, we have a Bible doing.
Don't let other people decide who you are.
God doesn't break things so He can fix them; He fixes broken things so He can use them.
Live a life of conspicuous grace and courageous resolve.
Too often we are posers. Don't be afraid. Be you. Live a life worthy of the calling YOU'VE received.