If you use your mind to look for a Buddha, you won't see the Buddha.
If you see your nature, you don't need to read sutras or invoke buddhas. Erudition and knowledge are not only useless but also cloud your awareness. Doctrines are only for pointing to the mind. Once you see your mind, why pay attention to doctrines?
The mind is the Buddha, and the Buddha is the mind.
All the suffering and joy we experience depend on conditions.
Once you see your nature, sex is basically immaterial.
Buddha means awareness, the awareness of body and mind that prevents evil from arising in either.