Once you see your nature, sex is basically immaterial.
Leaving behind the false, return to the true: make no discriminations between self and others. In contemplation, one's mind should be stable and unmoving, like a wall.
All the suffering and joy we experience depend on conditions.
Buddhas move freely through birth and death, appearing and disappearing at will.
Our true buddha-nature has no shape. And the dust of affliction has no form.
When we're deluded there's a world to escape. When we're aware, there's nothing to escape.