The reason for forgiving your enemies is not for their benefit but for your own benefit. Holding grudges against other people doesnโt hurt them; doesnโt even bother them much - in fact, even pleases them if they are still mad at you. It is not in your enlightened self-interest to hold grudges, regardless of whether it bothers the person you hate or not.
Brad BlantonTell the truth. All the time. About everything. What's the alternative to radical honesty? Waste. Wasted time, wasted money, wasted possibilities-a wasted life.
Brad BlantonLife goes on and the truth changes; this just happens to be the way life is. What was once true is often no longer true just a little while later. Yesterday's truth is today's bullshit. Even yesterday's liberating insight is today's jail of stale explanation.
Brad BlantonThe reason for forgiving your enemies is not for their benefit but for your own benefit. Holding grudges against other people doesnโt hurt them; doesnโt even bother them much - in fact, even pleases them if they are still mad at you. It is not in your enlightened self-interest to hold grudges, regardless of whether it bothers the person you hate or not.
Brad Blanton