You don't need to like reality, only be strong enough to face it
You will find no answers here, just choices.
...if reality is hard and flat and unjust, then it's better to adjust to what really is than to complain that it isn't what you wish. That was what made me lose faith..... But having lost it, soon I doubted my lack of faith. There were niggling hints of meaning everywhere.
one doesn't interrupt a beautiful girl unless one is going to be funny.
If you are not free to say no, your yes is meaningless.
There was a nice dilemma. How does one interject into a polite conversation, "By the way, in case you're ever interested, I do have a penise."?