We do not become. We simply are.

Here I am as a human being...how can I express myself, totally and completely?

Learn the principle, abide by the principle, and dissolve the principle. In short, enter a mold without being caged in it. Obey the principle without being bound by it. Learn, master, and achieve.

Obey the principles without being bound by them.

Seek freedom from the conformity of styles

I'm not in this world to live up to your expectations and you're not in this world to live up to mine.

Your state of mind is everything.