There have been so many times over the years where people have said "Man, I thought I was just coming to this deal to get a little handier with my horse" and I'll say "Well, in the beginning, I thought that's all you were coming for too. But it turns out it's about something else."
Buck BrannamanIf the human isnโt responsible for their role in the horse human relationship, horses just donโt get along very well. So thatโs why I say itโs all about the human meeting the bill to fit the horse in any given situation. But donโt expect the horse to always fit the human.
Buck BrannamanYou can accomplish amazing things with this if you have a passion and you work hard - I just think itโs a cop out to say 'I wasnโt born with this, so itโs OK if I fail'. You can make up the difference with hard work and devotion.
Buck BrannamanYou want your kids to feel happy and good about themselves. The rest they'll work out on their own. You never know what your kids will be drawn to.
Buck BrannamanYou allow a horse to make mistakes, the horse will learn from mistakes no different than the human. But you can't get him to where he dreads making mistakes for fear of what's going to happen after he does.
Buck BrannamanDon't be a victim. Be busy with your horse so you stay out of trouble - otherwise, trouble will come and find youโ, Brannaman would say. โBe assertive but don't be aggressive, if you are aggressive you'll make the horse flighty. The horse needs perimeters like anyone else. Give them guidance, support, rules. The same rules. Don't change the game. Don't let them have excuses just cause of their past. And love them.
Buck Brannaman