So what is it with your mother that you haven't worked out yet?
What you’re believing in the moment creates your suffering or your happiness.
What I invite people to do is to look at their lives just the way that they have lived them. Not to change anything, and not to do positive thinking at all.
Judge your neighbor, write it down. Ask four questions, turn it around.
You move totally away from reality when you believe that there is a legitimate reason to suffer".
Since the past is unreal and the future is unreal, all your thoughts are about nothing.