The proper aim of giving is to put the recipient in a state where he no longer needs our gift.
C. S. LewisGirls aren't very good at keeping maps in their brains", said Edmund, "That's because we've got something in them", replied Lucy.
C. S. LewisNeed-love says of a woman "I cannot live without her"; Gift-love longs to give her happiness, comfort, protection - if possible, wealth; Appreciative love gazes and holds its breath and is silent, rejoices that such a wonder should exist even if not for him, will not be wholly dejected by losing her, would rather have it so than never to have seen her at all.
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