Love...is not merely a feeling. It is a deep unity, maintained by the will and deliberately strengthened by habit; reinforced by (in Christian marriages) the grace which both partners ask, and receive, from God. They can have this love for each other even at those moments when they do not like each other; as you love yourself even when you do not like yourself.
C. S. LewisIt seems to me that we often, almost sulkily, reject the good that God offers us because, at that moment, we expected some other good.
C. S. LewisIf God were a Kantian, who would not have us till we came to Him from the purest and best motives, who could be saved?
C. S. Lewis